Comments for Ask Jane, A Request from Jane
Grace 7/05/2008 19:13 Hi Jane, I am the wife of a CD'r. I knew from the "friendship" part of my relationship that he was a crossdresser. It's important that the partners od CD'rs understand that CD'ing isn't about sexual preference. The obstacles for me after 2 yrs of marriage are trust. He hides interent sites and prfiles. Trust is the biggest issue for me. I need to know his actions as it helps me feel secure that I am the only LOVE in his life. I am afraid he "secretly" wishes to be with a TG/TV or TS.- Princess Stephanie Couturier 11/08/2007 20:48 (continued) eclectic lifestyle and relationship. To correspond with you, e-mail would be fine or maybe a phone conversation might be more efficient. Either way, let us know. We would like to share anything we can contribute in order to possibly help others in the same or a similar situations. Best of our Love! Stephanie (I also am a Colorado girl who loves the islands. How was Barbados?)
- Princess Stephanie Couturier 11/08/2007 20:43 Hi Jane! I realize this is a bit "after the fact" since you posted this request last summer but I would be happy to share my experiences as a life long "cutie-pie" crossdresser (according to my lovely wife) as well as a fit and masculine-looking man. I have been married to my wonderful SO for over 10 years and she loves sharing my special fascination of crossdressing and adoration of lingerie, shoe and such. As is human nature, we always have our challenges and unanswered questions but we seem to have a very good loving relationship despite the fears that may arise from our eclectic
- Sharon 9/22/2007 07:02 Linda Evans post came through my email and I felt strongly I needed to comment. I basically have given up hoping to find a girlfriend and a loving, happy relationship. I no longer consider myself to be a CD because I live full time as a woman; but in anger and hurt I have to state publicly that I find some women are insecure, selfish louts when it comes to this matter- "Well, if you cross dress and look like a woman what does that make me?" My answer to that is always the same- why does it make you anything different than what you already are?? I want to quote a now deceased friend whom
- Linda Evans 9/22/2007 02:40 Hi Jane, My experience with having a girlfriend a few years back was that when I told her, right away, she thought I might have been a CD. She helped me dress for her Halloween party she was having. After the Halloween party we started seeing each other more and more. when I told her I cross-dressed she wasn`t surprised and actually liked the idea. But after about a year, she started not to like it. I remember her saying that I was trying to make my own girlfriend when I dressed. She also said that "Linda" was more important than she was. In other words she got jealous.
- Minerva 9/16/2007 20:25 Perhaps my wife's greatest fear is that our 26 year-old son might find out. While relatively 'normal', he has, in the past, exhibited periods of depression which might even be suicidal. Her fear is that his discovery of my cross-dressing might be traumatic enough to cause him serious harm. Apropos the topic, there is a discussion at: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=66595 which deals with such issues in somewhat greater depth than the usual concerns. Particularly helpful may be the (necessarily anecdotal) reponses. Minerva
- Sharon 8/09/2007 17:00 I sent you an email. Sharon
- Amy Tom 7/16/2007 19:54 Hi Jane, I would be happy to respond to your request for information regarding the fears and concerns my wife has shared with me. You can e-mail me with your list of questions. Aloha, Amy-
Heather 7/15/2007 15:37 Jane, your wonderfull and very very pretty. My wife knows I cross dress from time to time, and, I think my adult sons do to. My question to you is, how can I know what she fears or feels about it? We are now very seperate in terms of attitudes and sleeping araingments (I just wish living arraingements to). Anyway, maybe you could e-mail her and ask? We seldom really talk these days. Heather
