Comments for Ask Jane, Column 20
Lash Larue 8/28/2008 05:48 Dear Suffering, PLEASE do not mistake the foul teachings of religion for the unconditional love of God. Unconditional. That means there are NO conditions under which God will not love you. You are mistaking the rules of Christianity with the love of Christ. The only time you are doing anything "wrong" is when you are lying to yourself and the world by NOT being yourself. There is only one theme in all of Christianity dear friend, the unconditional love of God for all, ALL, his creation. And the only thing he has ever asked of us, is to show that same love, w/o conditions, to one another.
Dan™ 8/20/2008 12:28 I love your articles Jane!- Bobbi Elizabeth Colbert 5/03/2008 06:47 Thank you for a very thoughtful and sensitive reply to 'suffering'. Many of us have grappled with the very same issues he is right now, myself included. My personal revelation came when I realized that all the damnation I and other christians heeped upon myself were not biblical but personal. The only commandment Jesus gave was 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. adding that all of the old testament and apostles' words were made impotent with this one phrase. Now, if unsure of moral issues, I ask if I'm following that commandment and the answer comes easily. Best 2
- Nina Nova 4/09/2008 21:19 Loved the reply and couldn't agree more. Thank you very much for reminding us of self acceptance.
- Monika Sweet 4/01/2008 06:10 I am not a Christian & I really cant comment on your belief.. but I beleive that it was ONLY the God's wish to have created you like this... spiritually speaking... if God wished to have you quit.. you wud have done it with all your efforts.. And.. if you are a God's creation then there is no sin or shame in being what God has made you as. Honor the God's wish by being yourself, crossdress without hurting anybody, have sex safely & dont cheat on anybody. If your lover loves you as a person, she will accept you as a person not in parts. Dont forget to pray when u dress & being urself.
- Dan™ 3/30/2008 15:25 Charlott, you are responding to Dan, not Jane. It's kind of funny that you have to wait. It seems that if there were any truth at all to these myths, there would be some kind of proof now. Be that as it may. People should be who they are without trying to figure out what their book of bronze age myths dicatates
- Dan™ 3/30/2008 15:07 Charlott. So is it only Christians who can stop then or do other gods have the same power? I'm sort of fuzzy on the list of super powers attributed to each.
- Abby Lauren 3/29/2008 22:50 Hi Jane Beautifully written and very thoughtful advice. Abby
- Lacie Lee Love 3/14/2008 20:59 Dear suffering, Welcome to the club! I am amazed that you have a devout Christian girlfriend who would be "horrified" if she found out about you....how did you hook up with that?? Are you chasing your religious beliefs or society's?? I feel you need to look into the mirror (literally) and find out WHO you really are and once you find out, then become comfortable with that!! After all, for what it is worth, what will be will be. Fighting what you are feeling never worked for me ( I love Jesus too!!), and you will angst forever, because that is the way it IS SUPPOSED to be! Relax&pray!
- Jennet 2/23/2008 08:00 "fantasize... being penetrated sensually in my anus. I almost cum at the thought as I write this" Fantasy usually seems more exciting than reality..according to a couple of people I talked to on the net... Even for shemales in porn movies...., most of them need to masturbate while being penetrated in order to cum... If you have a open-minded partner, you may ask her to try the strapons with you, and see if you really like it.. Like Pascale says, for many tgs, the desire to dress drops significantly when the sexdrive drops.. I suspect that many of us dress due to unfulfilled desire.
